I agree with what you're saying, as it's true. Being overweight can cause health problems, and a lot of Black people lose their lives and good health because of it. Diet, exercise, eating healthy, taking care of yourself, are all important, and neglected by many. I, however, don't believe a lot of Black women choose to be overweight, even when they're attractive and carry it well. I also think it's harder for some people to lose weight, biologically, financially, or whatever, than you seem to realize. There are people, who if they don't like how you present your message, they won't listen. I think that can be unfortunate, but it's how people are.

I like your "assertive" voice, but people are sensitive about their weight. I can't really think of another way to put it.................... I enjoy your writing!