I am so sorry for your loss. This resonated with me so much. I lost my aunt a little over a month ago unexpectedly. I am still heartbroken. Grief makes some uncomfortable and some really just don’t care. It’s a lesson. I will always remember the people who consoled me and allowed me to express my grief authentically and unabashedly. I will also know how to be better for those in the future who express loss-especially unexpectedly. You are so right—we should honor our grief. I was crying last night trying to pick out and price a headstone for my aunt. It seems it gets easier then you realize it will always be hard—just something you learn to live with.