I don’t care for most doctors and those is healthcare, even though I hate to admit it, because they are cruel and callous. I recently went through a similar experience with having to have a biopsy then talk to the oncologist for future reference. The radiologist, oncological surgeon, and the techs who performed the mammograms/biopsy were great besides the woman who did the first mammogram. I told the surgeon I didn’t want to be cut on and he said it was fine. They can just watch it. Tricky breasts don’t mean cancer. I’ve learned to mentally disconnect from these experiences because they don’t think about the words they speak, and don’t let these people make you feel small for whatever reason because being inconsiderate is part of the profession. It’s not personal and it feels better to shake it off.