I don't know what kinda energy she sends out, but she says the problem is the men she's dating, not her. She could be right. And she could be wrong. She specifically says that the dating pool gets smaller as you get older, and studies support that it's men who are emotionally unintelligent and don't do the work on themselves. Who can say why she's still single, but it doesn't mean there's something wrong with her...

I agree that you should find self-love and confidence before you try to embark on a relationship with someone else...