I don’t think the help people need before embarking on relationships, or trying to find a career, is external. That will be the end result as a bonus. I think if they need any, it should be internal. Working on themselves, personal goals, and yes, confidence. But confidence is internal. I was taught to look the best you can but it shouldn’t be to attract the opposite sex. That’s why I found most of what Samuels said to be superficial. Also if you feel good on the inside, your outside will start to match. If you love yourself, you will find someone who does as well. I weep for these couples who are like look at us two baddies together😩😩