I think you’re rubbing people the wrong way because you sound fatphobic. You also don’t seem aware of metabolic differences or endocrinology. These things are real. I do agree with your overall point because no one should die early because they overeat but you do seem to lack medical knowledge. Also I think you’re singling out Black women, because you’re Black and you care for the health of Black women, but women of other races are fat too. Unhealthy too. There are also gyms full of Black women working out. Some are fat too. So maybe don’t be so black and white about it. And no someone who is poor, stressed out, the breadwinner, living in a food desert, and has a knowledge deficit, is not just going to wake up one day and decide to get healthy without some type of help.