I think you’re trying to complicate something that is very simple. If you whine that your rights and freedoms are being taken away as a white person, that you’re now oppressed, or there’s such a thing as reverse racism…the adage applies to you. Let’s go into policy. If you have a problem with affirmative action, accuse people of being “woke” or open your mouth to say Black people get any types of special privileges because of the color of our skin—you’re lying and the adage applies to you. You cannot compare gay and lesbian people
having marriage equality like straight people to racial equality either. False equivalence