LOL! I think people’s feelings are valid and I think it’s okay that she wants a relationship. I agree that she lacks perspective and is definitely speaking from a place of depression…and desperation. Not healthy and won’t help her pursue whatever she wants. IMO there’s more to life than relationships…and money. There should be some type of balance, but some women and men don’t find “the one” and I don’t agree with feeling like you don’t have a whole life if you don’t. It’s also okay to not want a relationship. I would definitely rather pursue money than a man, however. Work on yourself, and the right man will FIND you, if that’s what you desire.