Now these are the facts. Beautifully stated! Because some of these same men who call Black women ugly, fat, loud, or whatever, will date a non-Black woman who is one, or all of that, with no complaints. The problem is that these kinda men value “other” women over Black women and we know that. That’s not the Black woman’s problem and those men don’t deserve a Black woman, so let them go where they want to go. I love your articles. They are always so spot on!