What do you mean by “participation” trophy? Looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with is not a game. Of course you can’t be blind to the world you live in. I like the phrase, ask yourself would you date you? I believe in being the best version of yourself to attract the best and yes that includes the opposite sex. I think spiritual work and maybe a therapist are much better choices than Kevin Samuels to do that. Like an image consultant would
Be the last step on the journey. For some tweaks here and there, sure he could have been helpful. Yet, at the end of the day, people who are far from being the best versions of themselves get together everyday. Sometimes they get married. Sometimes they look perfect on paper. Some times they don’t. But he potentially caused more harm than good because to the gullible he sold
An illusion and he sold
His opinions as facts. He also taught men not to respect women, especially if they had money and “options”’as he says. I think it would have Made more sense to listen to a happily married man who had been for some time, because what did he really know about the work Of relationships, or treating women right? And, yes, I will repeat he told some truths and made some sense. But that’s only because his callers were stupid most of the time
But it’s so gross when women are reduced to their vaginas and men to their penises and he would ask people about the sex they had to offer. Just nasty.