Who is he? For someone to change themselves? To accommodate him…to be in a relationship with him? God? Her daddy? That is a grown woman. If he didn’t like what she wore, he should have kept never pursued her. Expecting someone to change for you is a huge level of ego and insecurity. His texts are controlling and a gateway to abuse. But you keep throwing around “boundary.” Also an actress is alleging he shoved his tongue down her throat when she was only 16 and he was 24. I’m sure he has a history of abusive and predatory behavior towards young girls and women.