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Why Can’t You Find The Love You Desire?
If you want it…
There are hundreds of thousands, probably millions, of men and women who have given up on love in America.
The men are the most vocal because, well, they’re men. They also have a community called the manosphere. Some of these men are called incels — a combination of the words involuntarily and celibate. These men don’t have relationships or sex, as the name implies. It’s not because they don’t want to. It’s because they believe women are the problem, and that women are too stupid to give them the time of the day — either because they aren’t rich enough, handsome enough, or they are unwilling to see women as a prize and “kiss ass.”
Some of these men don’t have much experience with women, and I would guess that the majority of them have also experienced a lot of rejection from the opposite sex.
These men regularly recruit other men to feel the way they do and to, in turn, not respect women as full and whole people, and to never, ever simp. Simping basically means treating women with respect and dignity — and allowing yourself to fall in love and have a healthy, committed relationship with a woman you adore. It means valuing a woman.
On the flipside, you have misandrists. These are women who hate men. They shame and degrade women who desire love, marriage…
